- Paperback: 464 pages
- Publisher: Touchstone; Rev Exp edition (May 23, 2006)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0743201639
- ISBN-13: 978-0743201636
- Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 1.1 x 8.4 inches
- Shipping Weight: 13.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
- Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars See all reviews (622 customer reviews)
- Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,740 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems: New, Revised, and Expanded Edition Paperback – May 23, 2006
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1- there are several published studies showing that cry-it-out (extinction) and graduated extinction methods are effective in solving sleep problems. Almost no controlled and detailed scientific studies support the "no-cry sleep solution" methods.
2- there is no hard evidence that letting your child cry-it-out causes long-term problems (unless you're ignoring real medical problems).
3- there is evidence that a child's sleep deprivation leads to impaired cognitive development.
4- cold-turkey cry-it-out (extinction) requires more maintenance than graduated extinction, the method proposed by Ferber.
5- Parents using graduated extinction to solve their child's sleep problems bond with their child more than parents whose child does not sleep through the night (true attachment parenting).
The above considerations led my wife and I to try Ferber, since it is in our son's best interest that he sleeps well. I should emphasize that Ferber does not support the "cold turkey" cry-it-out method, where you just let the child to cry to sleep. Instead, he supports the periodic check and reassurance of the child, to let him/her know that you're there for them (graduated extinction).
Ferber's book was very easy to read, even for a tired parent. I followed his recommendation, and read the whole book before attempting any treatment.Read more ›
JP is my first baby. I thought I would be a 100% "attachment mom". I've read Dr. Sears books and I definitely thought that this was the parenting style for me (and still do in most aspects) I was NEVER going to be one of "those moms" that let their baby cry themselves to sleep. The thought of "crying it out" made me feel so bad - I didn't want MY baby to think I had just abandonned him to sleep alone. So for the first 6 months, I rocked, cuddled and fed JP to sleep (and enjoyed every minute of it!). We definitely formed that strong attachment I was waiting for. This worked great for us both - at first. He was sleeping through the night around 8 weeks and kept it up until around 4 months. Then he started fighting bedtime and was waking very, very frequently. Unfortunately, it wasn't just me he was attached to - he was also attached to his bottle and rocking chair! Nothing we did could get him back to sleep - short of feeding/rocking. Even that only lasted a short time, we were getting up several times a night and everyone in the house was exhausted - baby included. I would love to always rock and cuddle my baby to sleep but it was starting to create problems. :(
I was desperate to do anything. I read the No Cry Sleep Solution, Sleep Lady Book, everything I could get my hands on. All of these things had valid points - they just didn't seem to be working for me! Finally, I broked down and read the Ferber book - Solve your Child's Sleep Problems. Like I said before, I did not set out to be a CIO mom. Not only did I not want to do it, I didn't think it would work!Read more ›
Since before his birth I was convinced I would be an 'attachment parent'/Sears follower. Let me first say that I believe in attachment theory and still try and practice this type of parenting. Where I made my mistake was in trying to strictly follow what Dr. Sears said, particularly regarding sleep. His advice which he calls, 'nighttime parenting' involves responding promptly to your infant or child's cries. As a newborn, yes, you want to respond fairly promptly. Crying is their only form of communication, they need to eat frequently, etc. However, after a certain age, responding so promptly to every little whimper can cause big problems for certain babies (including mine). Dr. Sears is obviously very anti-crying (and provides multiple forms of research that supposedly backs up his stance) so I tried all his suggestions including co-sleeping. Co-sleeping can and does work for many babies. I suspect these babies maybe wake 1-3X a night. Their parents probably love the nighttime cuddling and everyone is getting good sleep. However, if your baby is like mine and is much more wakeful, this can result in constant night-waking as often as every 45 minutes to nurse.Read more ›
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This is a tried and true book, I purchased for our shared summer home, so family members can read and help thier little ones get a good night's sleep. Read morePublished 9 days ago by GQPC
Baby was sleeping through the night in one weekend. Eased my fears and helped me understand why what I was doing, was preventing her from sleeping. 9MO of no sleep, over!Published 10 days ago by Amazon Customer
Our daughter went from sleeping 3 hours at a clip to 12 within a week of starting sleep training. As a scientist, I appreciate Ferber's approach to describing sleep/wake cycles and... Read morePublished 23 days ago by C. Emrich
Like most parents, the sound of my baby crying is the worst sound in the world. For this reason, I delayed trying the Ferber method even though I knew rocking my 9 month old... Read morePublished 25 days ago by Amazon Customer
We recently used Ferber on my daughter, who just turned 1 years old. Having a background in early child development and attachment, I was highly conflicted on whether "Cry it... Read morePublished 27 days ago by Lindsay Hamilton
I bought this book after trying to wing the "Ferber" method on my own...we did ok on our own but this book gives so much more insight and information. Read morePublished 1 month ago by Jenette & Nate Donahue
Ok, I know a lot of people are for and against the ferber method, but a lot of people haven't read the book from what it sounds like. Read morePublished 1 month ago by Amorin
Worked wonders for me and my 6 month old who was waking every 2 hours. Also helped me understand her sleep patterns a lot betterPublished 1 month ago by Steph